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"Hi I married my husband a virgin. I looked forward to sex wit high expectations but I must say am disappointed or confused. 1- my husband doesn't last in bed which means I don't enjoy sex wit him. 2- since we married I don't see my cervical mucus. its 6 months now and am TTC. 3- i don't get wet whenever he touches me. but please note that before d wedding just a tot of him or a hug wit him turns me on and I get wet. a kiss frm him melts me I cldnt wait to be married. and now I feel nothing!!!! am thinking, is something wrong wit him or me? am tempted to try wit someone else to see if it will feel different. pls help."

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    A 35 years year old female asked:
    3 years ago
    Hi I married my husband a virgin. I looked forward to sex wit high expectations but I must say am disappointed or confused. 1- my husband doesn't last in bed which means I don't enjoy sex wit him. 2- since we married I don't see my cervical mucus. its 6 months now and am TTC. 3- i don't get wet whenever he touches me. but please note that before d wedding just a tot of him or a hug wit him turns me on and I get wet. a kiss frm him melts me I cldnt wait to be married. and now I feel nothing!!!! am thinking, is something wrong wit him or me? am tempted to try wit someone else to see if it will feel different. pls help.
    Dr. Omosefe E answered:
    3 years ago
    Good evening. I quite understand what you are going through. But have you tried talking with your husband in a way that you two will discuss the problem and come to a solution? It's not really a problem per se. It just needs understanding. He should learn of your sensitive spots and you learn of his, spend more time cuddling before the actual sex. Do more forplay than before. As for the cervical mucus you should know that not all women can monitor this properly to know when they are fertile that's why I will encourage you to use the cycle planner of this app to monitor your fertile days and your ovulation day.
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