A 33 years year old male asked:
a year ago
I met a lady on social media about 2yrs ago. since then, she and I have been so close and we fell in love with each other. she told me the whole truth about her life and her past. she confirmed she is HIV positive. I love her so much that I am the only one standing by her till this moment. her friends who know about her condition have all deserted her. the problem now is, we plan to meet for the first time, next week. because of the love we have for each other, sex would be just inevitable, no matter how much I may try to resist it. I am so afraid that I may not be too careful enough with her. I am afraid I might just get infected through her kiss, or maybe if condom breaks accidentally or through any cuts on my skin. I paln to turn her down and I don't want to hurt her or her feelings for me. if I don't show up to meet with her, she will breakdown, thereby worsening her condition. before now, I encouraged her to commence treatment and she promised to do so, this month of May after our meeting. I'm so confused right now.