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"Hi, I have a Lady I love and we have been dating for a while now. We kiss and she gives me a BJ always (which I enjoy). We had sex once and I used a Flex Gold Circle CD. But for health info I took her for a HIV screaning. She turned out Positive and since then I have been worried of my safety. Since this info I have been avoiding being alone with her cos of our sexual urge but she is feeling I dont want to be with her anymore. Plz Is it safe still making love to her with the Flexy CD or not? I have also asked her to go gor treatment. I need your advice so as not to get myself into a fix or am I likely exposed?"

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    A 34 years year old male asked:
    2 years ago
    Hi, I have a Lady I love and we have been dating for a while now. We kiss and she gives me a BJ always (which I enjoy). We had sex once and I used a Flex Gold Circle CD. But for health info I took her for a HIV screaning. She turned out Positive and since then I have been worried of my safety. Since this info I have been avoiding being alone with her cos of our sexual urge but she is feeling I dont want to be with her anymore. Plz Is it safe still making love to her with the Flexy CD or not? I have also asked her to go gor treatment. I need your advice so as not to get myself into a fix or am I likely exposed?
    Dr. Babalola I answered:
    2 years ago
    Good morning. The first thing you need to do is to confirm your own status too. Even if your test results is negative, you will need to repeat it again 3 months and six months later. While condum is protective against STI and HIV infections, caution is very important.
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    A 34 years year old male asked:
    2 years ago
    it's 3 months now and I tested Negative but used a CD for the second time with her. I will check again in 6 month. But I think I need to break up since there is no assurance of safety even when I use Condom safely. Thanks all the same.
    Dr. Babalola I answered:
    2 years ago
    Good that you tested negative, and willing to repeat again. Breaking up is an option, but self protection is much more important be it with her or any other woman.
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    A 34 years year old male asked:
    2 years ago
    Meanwhile, what do you think about the second encouter I had with her with a condom on my 3rd month. Should I be worried? (Though I cant continue with her anymore!)
    Dr. Babalola I answered:
    2 years ago
    Well if the condom was used appropriately the chances of getting infected is reduced significantly. There is not need been worried at this stage, you can only now wait till you have a repeat of the test.
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