Dr. Femi O answered:
2 years ago
hello,I salute your courage.At 21,you are in final year and as well studying a very good course.that's an achievement on its own.Now,never think about suicide no more.its for cowards.Am sure you are brave.The fact that you are yet to be in a relationship is not a yardstick for measuring success. Of course it is vain since you are still studying.What you need to do now is boost your confidence.Academic brilliance is a sure way for undergraduates,glad you have that already.Dress well,even if you have minimal wears,ensure they are well tailored and well kept,this will help in boosting your self esteem a lot.Hang out often but don't neglect the last phase of your undergraduate. Never look at anyone as better than you.you have the potential to surpass anyone if you believe in yourself.About the ladies,why not achieve first and see how they flock around you?then you can settle with one that suits you well.Then you can look back and be glad you were a way from such distractions when you were in school.Do you have a favourite lecturer?someone who can listen to you?you can speak to such a person.Am sure he or she will have more to encourage you.Your Dad or mom can also be of great help in motivating you.I have seen guys like you who ended up with great great self esteem eventually after focusing on building themselves while at school.You can be what you wish to be if you are focused.