Dr. Amen O answered:
2 years ago
Dearie is there a way you can maybe go thru with this pregnancy and give it up for adoption? That is a more better option than aborting which as of today is illegal in Nigeria.
So first step, since your partner isn't ready, ask an elderly relative or your parents for help to carry the pregnancy to term and then if after delivery you still don't want it, you can give it up for adoption.
Please see a qualified doctor for better explanation. Do not self medicate or self abort or see a quack as there are lot of consequences. Am afraid I can't prescribe any aborting drugs on this forum.
Meanwhile, in the future make sure you abstain till you are ready, if not, please use a condom.
What you are sick of may just be early signs of pregnancy. You can beat it by eating little food at a time, drinking lots of water, eating more of vegetables and fruits. Register for antenatal care ASAP, a lot of drugs are not safe in pregnancy, so if you are sick, you can get the appropriate medication.
You can commence folic acid 4mcg daily.
All the best in this.